my name is jay . I live in Northern NJ ... I am looking for peeps that have learned to live w/o/ drugs or alcohol. I am not a book beating 12 stepper . I am just a man who is tired of not living whole . I am married and have a daughter on the way . ( OCT.) I am looking for like people . I am a spiritual person ,.. but I really don't groove on organized religion,.. my god can beat up yours type a thing ...LOL ..I am a glass blower , my main focus sis on marbles ... but I make jewelry to pay the bills . I love the Grateful Dead and all the positive vibes that go along with it . I would love to find cool people that are actually living and that can help me along that path . thanks Jay